The marriage common with the most bizarre Vietnam: The night at the beginning of

In Hu Zhiming city lodges the following day in the morning, I take a walk to hotel entrance, want to see local amorous feelings. Happen to, a marriage celebrates company entrance to parking car of a marriage, company the facade of a shop is not big, marriage car is not luxurious also, but after be being dressed up with the flower very beautiful also. Be in as a result of official business personally, also cannot await, did not see a ceremony, a bit regretful.

Let me generate the interest to Vietnam marriage common from this, the comrade of diplomatic mission and local friend tell me: The girl tenderness of Vietnam is beautiful, the marriage common of Vietnam is bizarre and distinctive, some let a person feel mysterious even. The most peculiar is common of 3 kinds of marriage.

It is " first night " " Xie En " marriage common. In Vietnam north in a few tribe of pretty a group of things with common features, marry from time to tome one kind lets old lover be occupied first " first night " " Xie En " marriage common. A bride is before marriage, often have old beau. If be engaged with a person certainly, be about to be the same as other lover disengage. Press a tradition consuetudinary, the nocturnal bride of newly-married does not live in the bridal chamber of bridegroom, go looking for old lover however in all block is last overnight, in order to show " Xie En " . From now on later, also break off all contact with old beau, devoted to completely oneself husband, won't have the action of against the law of other again.

2 be " grab close " marriage common. In Vietnam north a mountainous area living Lou Louzu (Lo Lo) , the pattern that young men and women shows love is very special, they wear bamboo slip with the line rise make it loudspeaker, the girl that the boy adores to him through abstaining loudspeaker transmits information, he says: "I love you very much, my general opens wide my heart door leaf to you. If you also love me, I bring back you a wife that does me. " if the girl is right also the boy is intended, she replies: "Don't you know I had fallen in love with you very long? But, you want to remember, your love should be not behaved merely for honey-tongued. " the courtship that such boys understand to that girl had agreed with him, he marries this girl with respect to preparation. Spend a few time, both sides of male and female plans under the counter, the girl sneaks away from her home first come out, let a flock of young boys the girl " staking " in boy home. After the man grabs a girl, the man should kill pig fete, celebrate grab relative success. Inform a bride of the home the following day in, the 3rd day holds go-between in the palm to head for act as a matchmaker.

If bilateral parents agrees, can hold wedding, the woman sends two delegates to arrive in bridegroom home, give meal of one basket glutinous rice and the big cock that thoroughly cook only. Bridegroom and bride should arrive outside house receive these two delegates, eat the rice that they deliver and chicken together.
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